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A summary of "The Game".

Posted by Site Admin on February 15, 2010 at 7:15 PM

Let me introduce you to The Game.  

Basically, girls are the game, guys are the players. (Hence the reason guys get called players) 

Guys who are like this see women as a prize; something to win.

The objective: To get with you. Thats how they "win".  

Guys know that there is a universal set of saying and things that makes every girl happy and a guys skill in the game is based off his effectiveness with these sayings. In the shallow days of my past before I decided to right all of the wrongs I had done, I to was a player of this game.  Basically, the guy sweet talks you. Sometimes for days. Sometimes (if there are other girls he is going for or he is desperate) he will talk for weeks. However long it takes.

They make you feel like the luckiest person in the world. They keep you on your toes. Waiting for that perfect image you have in your head to happen, but it never does. He either scores with you, or you dont give him what he wants and either way, he moves on.


FYI: I am not advocating the playig of this game... I am warning you women, and you few men... who have or are, or will be victims of this game, and letting you know of a few simple things to look out for.


So girls, Beware. Be smart. Live strong. Be strong.

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6 Comments

Reply Sara
08:24 PM on February 15, 2010 
Soooo true.
it's funny, I like to think that I know these "player" types when I see them, sweet talking their way into girls hearts while I stand there thinking, "ARE THEY BLIND!!!" but yet some of them get me. It's hard to say who they are at first. That's whyt it's important to truly get to know someone BEFORE being able to say that you really like someone.
Reply Sara
08:27 PM on February 15, 2010 
-and by the way I like the way you put that.
That is so the way most guy's if not every guy looks at the situation; exept some are actually in it genuinly.
(or atleast let's hope) lol
Reply Anna
09:06 AM on February 16, 2010 
Amen! I go to a small town school, and people do that twice over because some girls are so trusting.
Reply Shay to nothing
09:41 PM on March 10, 2010 
What happens is he doesn't move on?
Reply Anna J
12:51 PM on March 13, 2010 
Yep. I have been victim to this many times in my past. Although, I don't think that it always plays out this way...as a woman, I have had a few one night stands, where I would make it clear to the person that I had no long term interest and just wanted to have some fun. Point is, I feel like with this game in mind, girls are always "victims." Don't get me wrong, like I said above, i've totally been scammed by boys playing their little games. All this to say, girls CAN play the game, and it can be quite fun if the other person is on the same page. I think it's a double standard in our society: if a guy has a one night stand, he is a hero. If a girl does, (like myself), they are "whores." Advice?
Reply Sara
01:51 PM on March 13, 2010 
I dont know if this is necessarily advise.
But I think your tactic works good...as long as you can really truly have physical contact with him and really not have any feelings involved. Which is hard for women to do, bc we are emotional beings, and having physical contact with someone automatically brings about emotions for that person even though we may not like them.
But as long as your being safe and having fun, and thers no drama in the situation...
Then I totally agree with you.
I think girls put them selves off more onto guys you know...like all over them, flirty, rubbing themselves on them.
You we get our title. Guys just play a little game, and it ain't too hard to win us over when were those types of girls. But "props" to guys that do that. HELL NO! Their just as dirty as the whores.
I mean, theres having fun, but there's a line...